That night, I spent a few hours in my room, reading Borges' Ficciones in Spanish and writing down some varied thoughts, which turned out to be some rather interesting ones comparatively. Around 10, my host dad finally got back from some ambiguous errand, and we went out to dinner at a nice restaurant called La Casona. I got some delicious gooey green lasagna. There was some rather tacky but talented live music.
The next morning we didn't begin until 11, so I had a relaxed morning eating a delicious fruit feast and reading Borges. There was one overripe mango that kind of disgusted me, though. We went in taxi (the family has no car) to the Casa de Cultura, where the conference was held. The morning was full of opening ceremony bullshit, the presentation of the flag (with the requisite mediocre military band and group of girls who march liked fascists), etc. We were given free time to look at artesan booths; I made for the library, which is also a part of the Casa de Cultura.
Libraries in Mexico in my experience feel old, but not very old; they are from the 50s or so, I imagine, all skeletal metal shelves and carts. They also have a better selection than Cass City's library, perhaps. I feel like there was a small, highly cultured group of people at some point in or perhaps throughout the history of Mexico, who had very ambitious ideas about education, art, and things like libraries, and used their political influence to try to get these things installed in society as a whole. I feel like they failed entirely, but that there are numerous relics of their ambition evident in school textbooks, libraries, and in the sort of "enlightened" attitude in which some people here understand the world.
We were reunited after a long while to take a group picture. They made us wear the blazers, in the hot noonday sun. The Hottest? We were then bussed to a big hall at a hotel for lunch. I got a lackluster plate of steamed vegetables. After food, the adults left for Bigger and Better Business, and we stayed to learn a rather simple dance (swaying, and later walking in a line, and later holding hands and moving in and out) to Mexico en la Piel (the Mexican version of "American the Beauty," except that it is actually good). I stubbed my toe on a Thai girl's shoe and broke off the right half of my big toenail. It didn't actually break off, however, and every once in a while it would catch on something and that Great Pain. I have by now excised that nail bit entirely.
From there, we were bussed to a park and left there essentially alone for about an hour. At that point the adults arrived and planted a tree and took a lot of pictures of it and shook each others' hands a lot. They didn't involve us in this. We were then walked around the park to the stage, where we saw some speeches and the traditional Oaxacan "Flor de Piña" dance. They then bussed us back to the hotel to dine and have a sort of "kitschy middle-class adult" talent night. Imagine something white people would like. We did our dance, and then there was a surprise dance that Yana sang a song and we all ended up in the dance area pretending to dance salsa. That was pretty cool I suppose.
Saturday, the morning's fruit feast was an improvement on the previous day's, and I read more Borges. I think that the adult Rotarians didn't want to wake up early either; exchange students are of course notoriously lazy and slow and late-to-rise, but no one ever seems to adjust for that. In spite of Tuxtepec's too hot, those were very nice mornings. The morning was more conference bullshit, but the speakers were more interesting, inspirational people with good messages (seize the day, your attitude determines your happiness, help other people, give money kill polio, etc).
We headed to buses again to go to the Lienso Charro, which is where rodeo-esque events called Charreria are performed. An extremely busy young waiter served our table. When we finished eating, we went to see the event. My current host family lives in the same building as my host mom's brother, who works as a horse therapist. His daughter is a member of a Escaramuza team here, and I had went with them the previous weekend to Veracruz but the event got rained out. Thus, I already knew some of the team, but had never seen the event performed. Note that the wikipedia article claims the first 9 events are for men only, but I believe this isn't true; I think the women do all of the men's events as well as the escaramuza. They also ride side-saddle, which is really weird, isn't it? What is the logic behind that, anyway?
We were released to go spend the afternoon resting with our host families at that point. My host dad was at a VIPS eating with some friends, so I was taken there. They talked to me a bit about Rotary politics (apparently the current district governor, Carlos Vera Vidal, is irresponsibly mixing Rotary and politics and religion; he is a Priista and there were several almost explicitly Catholic events listed in the program, though I didn't end up seeing any of them). Then we went and took a walk downtown, and went to the market. He bought me some natural Oaxacan chocolate (for making hot chocolate) and a little wooden rabbit. I also bought some secret gifts for unknown people. We went home and rested for a few hours, and then went to a formal dinner dance in the same hotel hall.
A dance followed, and I, for some reason, I guess was tired of something or other, or expected we would be waiting less, went outside with some other kids and just sorta waited for the next three hours or so until we went home. I enjoy the fact that that sort of thing should never happen to me again now, now that I am free.
Sunday, we had closing ceremonies, all in the auditorium, and rather brief. The power kept going out. There was a parade of exchange students, which was kind of lackluster too. Amanda, our president exchange student (a joke) from Brazil, spoke a speech she had written and showed a sappy powerpoint, and some people started crying. I didn't really feel anything. Am hartless basterd?
We waited around for a while there, said goodbyes, and then I went home. I used the internest for a while, watched this cool new Hawk and a Hacksaw video, and slept a bit. Then the bus rides home; they played Life is Beautiful, which of course ranks among the best sad, powerful, beautiful movies, and also fumny, and then Perfect Stranger, plus an episode of "American Chopper." The Moon while we were leaving Tuxtepec was gorgeous, glowing an effusively golden orange. Is it possible to take pictures of the Moon with a digital camera and 4x optical zoom? How?